What causes premature ejaculation ?

Premature ejaculation is rarely caused by a physical problem or illness. Most men tend to ejaculate quickly during their first reports . Some situations , creating a nervous tension (lack of time , fear of being caught ) prevent to relax (eg only have a few minutes to a relationship with his girlfriend while his parents are out , or have no other place to make love than the back seat of a car ... etc. . ) . When sexual experience increases, and when the context in which we can make love makes you feel more secure , it becomes easier to learn to control his ejaculation .

The most common causes of learning failure of ejaculation control are lack of experience and frequency of reporting , the fact that the sexual act takes place in poor conditions, being always tense and uptight, not knowing unwind , lack of confidence , a factor of anxiety, guilt , or feel like a poor lover. All these negative feelings reinforce with repeated failures. This further reinforces the anxiety and deteriorating psychological and sexual situation.Fear of failure often tends to accelerate ejaculation. Any comments made ​​by the partner , sometimes without intent to injure , makes things worse for the man who feels humiliated .